When sending e-mails it shows the name and e-mail address of each person, is there a way for just the name to be shown?

My hotmail account has been hacked and then locked.  The only way to unlocked it seems to be via this page that sends a code to my alternate email address.  This alternate email address doesn’t exist anymore, I can’t get the code.  I really need access to my hotmail account, so much information is store in there!  Please help!!

The following link ...http://cioccolatini.com.ve/aircraftencourage/Anthony_Scott75/?a=204200&s=...is using my name and email address and posting it to everyone on my contact list. This link is to work from home. I do not even look at sites like that and this is the first time that this has happened to me. How can I stop this nonsense ... the people on my contact list are afraid to open email from me.
My account got blocked this morning right after I send an e-mail, now I cant get in any more, saids need codes to unblock, but the alternate mail address is invalid( I put it wrong) 
My e-mail is ; <removed by moderator>Please help me to unblock it,
please
please !!


Recently, when I try to send an email, the address of a particular contact ALREADY appears in the address line! How do I get rid of this annoyance?
I have an e mail address of {Removed by moderator} but I cannot get into it so I got a new address & tried to get my e mails & contacts transfered but I can't do this please help.
Someone spent spam from my address. Have changed password to stop it happening again. How can I send one email to all on my contact list to tell them to ignore the spam?
I got a warning that I had possably been sent a virus. Is this a real e-mail address for my safety or a scam?
Outlook 2011 offers a drop down list of address templates/formats.  Is it possible to create a new template; i.e. Ireland is missing.  Canada is the closest equivalent but it would be handy to create one that is spot on.

Thanks

Nicholas Mitchell