So in outlook 2013 I go to file->add account

Choose manual setup(as the automatic option fails of course)

Choose the second option:  outlook.com or exchange server etc

The next screen requires this info
My name:
email address: *** Email address is removed for privacy ***
mail server:
user name:
password:

two questions:
what is the mail server name?
is the user name the whole email address or just the blah section.

thanks in advance