Question about Outlook Express

hi my name is jody and i can not sign in to my xbox live id it says that my email is not active but i cannot recover my gamer tag with out that email when i try to recover my gamer tag it says sorry there's a problem with the credentials that you're using to sign in visit https://account.live.com to fix the problem but when i go to that website and put in my email and password it says it looks like someone has been using your email account and it takes me to another page and says how do you what to receive your security code and it says it will send the code to the email to the account that i am trying to get in to i have tryed to change it so it will go to another email but it will not let me. my email is *** Email address is removed for privacy ***  thank you if you can help.   if you what to email me with a anwser you can at *** Email address is removed for privacy *** thank you