I am having trouble with my incoming mail.  I have been in touch with my server and am told this is a windows live problem.  I receive an

email and read and reply.  A few minutes later, an indication bell rings and the same e-mail is highlighted.  I have to click at the top

read/unread to stop it from being highlighted.  Another problem has developed, I received an e-mail and replied but the reply did

not come back to me in windows live, I found it in a g-mail account.  I am terribly confused by some of the answers.  Telling me to

uninstall and reinstall.  I don't want to lose any of my mail or drafts.  Please tell me there is another solution.  Tried to find out if there

was an update I missed, no luck finding out.