I just purchased and IPad.  With Apple support we have discovered that when I delete a message from the IPad, it is deleted on the server (cox.net) when I pull it up in a web browser.  However when I return to the desktop computer and pull up my email with my WLM all messages that have been deleted are present.  So this must be a synching issue but no one can seem to tell me the next step.  Any advice?