My old (but still active) hotmail account and my new hotmail account, which I opened after I found out my ex had access to the old one, are now BOTH being hacked by my ex. She is not sending messages or using my details, but she is just accessing my emails to have 'control' over my life.

How can I proof that someone accesses my hotmail accounts?!! I live in the Netherlands, she lives in the UK.

I need proof in order to open a criminal case against her.

Can I somehow find out from where (or which IP address) people are accessing my hotmail accounts?

Please help, because nobody in this community seems to be concerned about finding out how is hacking their account! (?)

If there is no answer to my question, I will be forced to close all the accounts and go to g mail, which seems to be better protected....