Question about Outlook Express

I get so damn pissed off when you (Microsoft) stop my working on the web so you can do an update, that I may not want.  How do I stop your interference with my use?  I am tired of having to find where I was so I can reenter all the data you made me lose.  Ask me if I want you to update before you update and if I say no, DON'T UPDATE!   Your email program is totally not secure as I have had it pirated twice (2 times) and my contacts have been bombarded with spam thanks to your failure to properly secure the Hotmail site.  Plus I DON'T WANT OR WON'T USE Skype, yet you want me to sign up and use it or not have Hotmail.  If it weren't for the outlook bypass I would not use Hotmail at all.  You force users to use a system they don't want or like and is able to be hijacked.  Wake up, not all users of computers use all the garbage you try to force upon us.  HOW DO I GET YOU TO NOT UPDATE UNTIL I AUTHORIZE IT.  STOP HIJACKING THE USE OF MY UNIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ray Mongrain   *** Email address is removed for privacy ***  {removed}