Windows Live Mail asks “allow sender” for every email, even when they are in contact list

Tried following the "dead" thread posted here on the forum .. yet all links were dead. Anybody got a a bug fix for this Microsoft Windows Live Mail issue? I know I will need to give it up (Windows Live Mail) in the future. Microsoft issued an update to allow continued use of Live Mail (applied) but the writing's on the wall they are abandoning it. Android too was bastardized to "****" off user (me included) forcing auto update to be turned off.  I am moving away from Microsoft for mobile use now .. don't shoot the messenger, they did it to themselves.