outlook freezing on vista

since being forced to change my old style hotmail account to outlook i am unble to do any work whatsoever. once i open an emailit all goes to ratshit, when i try and delete reply or exit the email everythng locks up and i just get those really shitty annoying little white dots scrolling across the top of the screen. I timed it today and after 40 minutes it was still doing it. the only way i can do anything is open the email read it, then i haveto shut down, thn restart everything, write my reply email without opening the original i want to reply to. I have looked at various forums stating i have to turn off add ins but when i try and follow the instructions it keeps tying to get me to cofigure/insall outlook which is asking for the password from my ISP. what the **** is that ? I am not a computer expert, i did notwant my old style account changed and now microsoft **** are costingme money please can somebody help me before i really feel the need track bill gates down and kill him ( i am only jokingabout that before te intnet spys report me)