outlook 2013 Calendar needs to be on outlook.com to sync with windows phone 8 lumia 925

New computer, new operating system, new version outlook,  new lumia 925. So far got an outlook.com email address and account, my email pop3 account is  on phone and on outlook.com site. I read the directions and got my outlook 2013 calendar in list view and have selected it to copy to outlook.com site empty calendar ( it has major holidays ) Do not see view change to put it in list form to paste calendar entries here. Once this is done need to know where to up date calendar so it is on my computer when off line, and syncs to my phone. I want to be able to enter meeting in phone and have it show up in outlook 2013 outlook.com and the phone. I need to know where to change contact records to have that also update all three pc,phone and outlook.com account.