my emails won’t open…..

I have had it with Outlook. Ever since it changed from Hotmail, I have had nothing but problems trying to read my emails. I sign in and then I get messages telling me there may be something wrong with my connection or my internet settings, but, when I try to fix it by changing my settings, changing browsers, etc.....(trust me, I have tried everything!), no change. Sometimes I can access them, and sometimes I can't. Either way, when I try, it takes FOREVER to access them, and I do not have time for this nonsense! Even my phone will not update my emails from my Outlook account anymore at times. It is intermittent, and buggy, and very frustrating!!!! I HATE Outlook, and I really wish I had my Hotmail back. The format was nicer, and I never had the kind of problems I am having now. I am fairly computer savvy, too, so I know it's nothing I have done or not done. I have had my Hotmail account since 2000. I have never been so disgusted with an email service as I am now! I have read all the solutions I have time to read, and none of them works for me. I rely on email for bills, updates, important correspondence, etc., and I can no longer rely on Outlook for these things at all. I tell everyone I know how much I can't stand it anymore. I can't even get a real person to talk to me about it, either. I'm fed up.