Iphone,itunes,downloading

My sister much to my dismay got an iPhone . I am not happy about this because I am her support for all her devises.

I do not like the iTunes download and steer clear of apple products. I am a die hard Microsoft and Android user. Eventually I will make the leap to

Windows phone , but I think they have a little ways to go before I make that commitment.

Anyways my question is .

Can I sync her contacts that are on her IPhone without downloading iTunes on her computer.???

I would like to take all her music and contacts and sync them to windows media , and google (Gmail).

According to Apple the process of syncing all her information includes downloading icloud, iTunes .

I don't want to do this . I just upgraded her laptop to Windows 8.1..

I did this before she got iPhone.

Thanks

Steve 

One more question : I tried downloading iTunes on my sisters laptop running 8.1 and after I selected download iTunes box I was not asked if I wanted to

run   save   or   cancel  .  That box that comes up on my laptop when I select download iTunes did not come up on her laptop.

What would cause this to not happen . We both have IE 11 . My laptop shows it hers doesn't . It just says thanks for downloading iTunes and nothing

happens . I look for iTunes in her files and programs and it is not there. It is not downloading.