How do I adjust my personal or e-mail settings in Hotmail to accept e-mail from Ancestry.com newsletters, articles, and such?

In Hotmail, where are the settings where one indicates from whom they will accept e-mails?   I did not find any of the e-mail which I'm seeking in the Junk Folder.  Ancestry has my correct e-mail address.  I have indeed indicated to Ancestry which newsletters I wish to receive and they assure me they are sending them.  Ancestry.com and *** Email address is removed for privacy *** are also on my contact list.  I would like to make the necessary adjustments or I would like Hotmail to allow e-mail from those addresses into my inbox.  Anyone who knows what to do, please respond.  Thank you in advance.