Account password reset not working and now locked

I have an old hotmail account that merged with my outlook account when it first rolled out.  I do not use the outlook account as my primary, I use a gmail.   I have obviously forgot my password and when I go to do the reset it asks my first pet name(no clue there) and has the option to send to my phone number(last two digits are the same as my wife's phone number).    What are my options?  I had to create this new outlook account to post this question, I really need my old outlook account since it is associated with my Xbox Live, Steam and a few other things.  I am also locked out of the account since I have tried too many times.  This account is also used for my Windows 8 store and account